3rd Sunday after
Pentecost /
Hosea 5:15-6:6; Romans
4:13-25; Matthew 9:9-13, 18-26
Rev. Gayle M. Highness
Keeping the Faith
In the book, Angela’s Ashes, Frank McCourt tells the story of his life growing
up as a poor Catholic boy in
Frank had been thoroughly
conditioned to see Protestants as lost sinners bound for hell.
By the time I was growing up in
I had a friend named who had once
been Catholic but wasn’t anymore, and I felt really bad to think that she would
be going to hell. That didn’t seem quite right.
I’m sure most of the adults here can
recall a time when a Catholic dating or marrying a Protestant was considered a scandal.
My folks had gotten past that and didn’t mind too much that my little sister
and I were dating non-Catholics, as long as we went to church together – that
was the important thing to her.
Well, my little sister and the man
she eventually married certainly DID go to church together. In fact, they
became missionaries. Not only did my little sister leave the Catholic church
after becoming a ‘born again’ Christian, she also questioned whether the rest
of us were really “Christians” at all, since we couldn’t point to a particular
time when we could say we had accepted Jesus Christ as our personal savior.
She and her husband were married the
day after my parents’ wedding anniversary and so the night of the rehearsal we
were gathered in my parents’ hotel room having a drink with them to celebrate.
Her husband’s family didn’t believe in drinking, and my sister was quite upset
with us because we didn’t abstain from drinking out of respect for their
beliefs.
What all these situations and many,
many more like them have in common is a concern for righteousness – for holding
to the truths of our faith as we understand them, without compromise – for
doing the right thing based on a belief that God has revealed the right thing
and God would expect us to obey the rules.
Knowing how easy it is to get drawn
into sin, we believe we must keep up our guard and avoid contact with anything
that might tempt us or draw us into sin. We especially need to guard against
the temptation to relax our standards and call evil good and good evil.
Isn’t that what we SHOULD be doing?
Well, yes. But the issue gets clouded for us sometimes when the “right thing”
seems to be a moving target.
For example – not too many people
think it’s wrong for Lutherans and Catholics to date or get married anymore.
Quite a few people – though not everyone – still think it’s wrong for people to
live together before marriage. But generally we marry them anyway and we don’t
tell them not to come to church.
And now our denomination is headed for
a big controversy over whether to ordain men and women in committed,
monogamous, same-sex relationships and whether to bless their unions. I think
the majority of Lutherans would stand on the conservative side of this question
and, indeed, many can’t even believe there IS a question.
But those on the other side are just
as passionate in their belief that changing the policy is the right thing to do
based on their understanding about a gracious, loving and live-giving God.
Even when the “right thing” in a
given situation is pretty clear to most any person of faith, we can still have
some uncertainty about how to apply those standards to others. We don’t want to
be judgmental.
We want to welcome people whose
lifestyle we disagree with in the hopes that we will have a positive influence
on them. On the other hand, we don’t
want them to have a bad influence on US.
This
sometimes comes up when you don’t like the kind of kids your own kids want to
hang around with. Do you forbid them to
play with that friend? Or do you welcome the friend into your home, but forbid
your son or daughter from going to their house?
Here in Nauvoo, we face questions
about how to relate to our Mormon neighbors. In the Ministerial Association, we
have a pretty open stance – even sharing in VBS, the passion play and some
special worship services. Some would say this is compromising our standards and
beliefs. Others would say it’s being open and accepting, or that it gives us
opportunities to share our faith with Mormons.
Today’s Scriptures have something to
say about these questions, though they don't necessarily give us easy answers.
In the gospel reading, we have the
Pharisees with their understandable concern about righteousness and purity, questioning
Jesus’ disciples about their master’s association with tax collectors and
sinners.
It’s easy to see the Pharisees as
right-wing religious fanatics who are judgmental and self-righteous and not
like us. We’re glad that Jesus wasn’t like that and we’re glad that he
associated with sinners, as long as we see ourselves in the boat with the
sinners.
But we shouldn’t be so quick to
identify the Pharisees as the bad guys. After all, they didn’t know if Jesus was
really from God – they were trying to uphold hundreds of years of tradition
that was very, very clear in their minds. In our debates about sexuality, sometimes
those who stand against change seem to me to have more in common with the
Pharisees than with Jesus, and that’s what makes me a little uneasy with my own
more conservative position.
When Jesus responds to the
Pharisees, he quotes the Scripture that was part of our first reading from the
Prophet Hosea. “Go and learn what this means,” he said, “ ‘I desire mercy, not
sacrifice’.” In our NRSV translation of this Scripture, it says, “For I desire
steadfast love and not sacrifice; the knowledge of God rather than burnt
offerings.”
What that scripture and others like
it in the Old Testament is about is the tendency of the Israelites to point to
their adherence to rites and rituals as proof of their right standing before
God, while they flagrantly disregarded God’s commands to care for widows and
orphans and to act with justice and mercy toward the oppressed, or while they
participated worship of other gods.
Hypocrisy angers God greatly. It’s
like a slap in the face. It would be like a husband who is cheating on his wife
and so buys his wife lovely presents to show what a good husband he is. Or like
parents who never make it to the kids’ activities or programs or never take
time to just sit and talk or play with them because they’re too busy with other
important stuff, but they do buy them whatever they want in clothing,
electronics, cars or toys.
To think that we have God’s favor or
that we are right with God because we follow rules or do certain right things
like go to church, or we don’t do certain wrong things, is very dangerous
ground for us – especially if we start to identify those who DON’T do the right
things that we do, or who DO DO the wrong things that we DON’T do, as being
outside of God’s favor and thus reinforcing our own favored position.
It is very clear in the Scriptures
that our favor with God has nothing to do with our adherence to the law but has
everything to do with our faith in Jesus Christ and his death on the cross for
our sins and his resurrection to new life. For us to claim self-righteousness
by adherence to laws is like saying that Jesus’ death was unnecessary.
Therefore, the first thing our
Scriptures call us to today is an understanding of ourselves as sinners in need
of God’s grace and of faith in Jesus’ death alone for our salvation. That faith
brings us into a living, vital relationship with God in Christ – a relationship
in which we receive the Holy Spirit and share in God’s life.
The second thing we are called to do
is then to BECOME the means by which God’s grace is extended into the world. So
that, through us, others may know the good news of God’s love.
From there, we can then ask
ourselves, are my actions and the actions of my church serving to bring God’s
love and grace and forgiveness into the world? Are people being healed and
reconciled and growing in their relationship with God because of what we are
doing? Or are we merely serving ourselves and maintaining our own status in the
Kingdom?
Each of us needs to ask ourselves
those questions every day and we need to ask that of ourselves as a community
of believers, too.
Jesus is all about bringing us back
into relationship with God through the forgiveness of sin. That’s why Jesus
said, “I have come to call not the righteous, but sinners.”
So, as followers of Jesus, that’s
what we should be about, too. Therefore, the decision about whether we uphold a
standard or relax a standard should not be based on keeping ourselves pure and
righteous, but should be based on what will be most effective in extending
God’s Kingdom here on earth – what will help to reach the most people with the
good news of God’s grace and love for sinners in a broken and imperfect world.
The answers may vary and they may
not always be as clear as we’d like. What seems good in the short run, might be
harmful in the long run. Or what appears heartless and judgmental to the one,
might be lifesaving for the many.
But let’s at least be asking the
right questions and listening to one another and praying for God’s Spirit to
lead us to the answers and the actions that God desires. Amen.